Ji An the Mentor

Commenter John Payne from the Man vs Drama YouTube threads writes:

The chance encounter between Dong Hoon and Ji An to complete My Mister is magical, from the onset when Ji An hears the voice she had become so intimate with, to the camera as it follows her over the shoulder to reveal a reborn young woman, standing in the beautiful sunlight and finishing with a handshake that is anything but.

It’s wonderful that Ji An, the mentor, has seen her student Dong Hoon become so happy. BUT WAIT, you may be thinking, Dong Hoon is obviously the mentor here. Hear me out though as I make my case. I think the Writer, Park Hae Young is brilliantly flipping the obvious roles of mentor/mentee here in ways that on the surface appear one way but in actuality are reversed.

As souls go, Ji An has declared herself to be the elder by at least 30,000 years. She’s world weary and wise but has forgotten her humanity. She’s tasked with destroying an innocent, and Dong Hoon though older, is naively and idealistically hanging on to a job and marriage that he is cluless about.

Ji An at first seems to take delight in destroying his life, but the one ember of her humanity left, her grandmother, is blown back into life by Park Dong Hoon.

When she tells him about the phone booth, she’s making a conscious decision to reveal to him the truth about what’s happening in his life. She’s the master here, a manipulator who sees every angle and is in control. But, Dong Hoon’s goodness and spirit begin to remind her of what she has lost. She’s the prime force for change in Dong Hoon’s life for good or ill. Dong Hoon though moral is stuck, he’s unable to move and his structure is starting to crack. Ji An wakes Dong Hoon up and when he begins to run towards her finally starts to make a change in his life.

It is Ji An who has shown Dong Hoon the truth, initially she is the teacher. Dong Hoon acknowledges this to her when he says, “Thank you, I was on the verge of death but you saved me”. Is this something the mentor says to the student?

The title of the drama says it all: “My Mister” or in Korean “My Ajusshi”, it’s not “My Anjuin” (My Mistress). Yes, in this process the student teaches the teacher, and this is what happens to Ji An as she wakes up to her humanity. By making the decision to save Dong Hoon she saves herself — and he can finally ask her, “Have you found comfort?”


6 thoughts on “Ji An the Mentor”

  1. I watched My Mister at the beginning of the Pandemic when everything was beginning to shut down. It gave me a peculiar kind of comfort or calm knowing that they were, in essence, helping each other find their own humanity and giving back to each other. I loved reading this analysis. Just might choose to watch the series all over again!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. You had great timing to find such a rich, meaningful show right at the beginning of Covid! And I know I picked up on so many things with subsequent re-watches…there’s always something new to discover in MM. 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

  2. Hello John,
    Thank you for another thoughtful And illuminating post. This series is still “under my skin,” having me thinking about the clues, hidden and obvious, of character development and resolutions that I missed in my first two viewings due to my own distracted viewing (and low expectations at the beginning) and misunderstanding of the culture and setting of
    The story. Rather than post my responses to the many fascinating details of characters’ relations, story settings, and morals, I’m more Interested in discussing questions and techniques of the series that left me with questions. I’d love to continue that discussion with You and with “the sweet road,” and others If There is a place on This blog for that, or even via direct email or some other platform. Can you Let me know
    If this is of interest to you? Thx.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Hi David, I for one would love to discuss those things with you! Feel free to write here, and/or there is also the Soompi Forum My Mister thread. (This Give Me Slippers website was born out of the Soompi My Mister thread after the series ended.) Several of us newer MM fans are at Soompi now, and we love mulling over questions regarding MM and looking deeper at the techniques the show used. So that’s a great place to exchange MM ideas with others. Here’s a welcome message (scroll to the last post on the page to see it if the link doesn’t go there automatically): https://forums.soompi.com/topic/408082-drama-2018-my-mister-%EB%82%98%EC%9D%98-%EC%95%84%EC%A0%80%EC%94%A8-best-drama-at-2019-55th-baeksang-arts-awards/?do=findComment&comment=22310458

      And if you want to drop in and see some of the current discussion, that’s here: https://forums.soompi.com/topic/408082-drama-2018-my-mister-%EB%82%98%EC%9D%98-%EC%95%84%EC%A0%80%EC%94%A8-best-drama-at-2019-55th-baeksang-arts-awards/page/353/

      Look forward to hearing more from you!

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Thank you “sweetroad” I left a post on the soompi site using the first link. I’m interested to hear your thoughts. Be well.

        Liked by 1 person

    2. Hi David, so nice to read your insightful post on Soompi. I just now had a chance to respond. See you over there!


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s